Letters to a Scared Boy Called Tom

Dear Younger Me: You’re More Than a Broken Heart

Trauma tried to trap you. Adventure set you free. And yes, sometimes freedom looked like wolves, wine, and forgotten cheese.

Aug 27 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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Reflecting on July

and how some simple NLP techniques helped make me more confident and less afraid of being a responsible dad

Aug 9 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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July 2025

How You Believed Trauma Lay Around Every Corner

and the solution that lived just outside your door

Jul 30 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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Behind-the-Scenes

How I answered my own questions from the last newsletter

Jul 14 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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Dear Burnt-Out Me: It’s Time to Reroute

A letter to the version of me who thought exhaustion was proof of hard work.

Jul 7 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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June 2025

Heart Surgery, PTSD, and a Beautiful Nurse: How I Lost My Mind (and My Gown)

A true tale of panic, perspective, and flirting with the angel of the NHS while trying not to die (or flash too many people).

Jun 11 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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April 2025

The Pain was Like Nothing Else

but mindfulness helped save my life that day

Apr 22 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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December 2024

I Had No Choice but to Reinvent Myself

What About You?

Dec 28, 2024 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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November 2024

How to Leverage the Power of Questions

and watch your curiosity grow

Nov 11, 2024 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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Get More Curious

and watch your creativity spark

Nov 1, 2024 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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October 2024

Don't underestimate the kindness of strangers

and keep being you

Oct 17, 2024 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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Take the First Step Towards Growth

and subdue the imposter voice

Oct 14, 2024 • 

Tom Selby Edge

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